Whether on a Barnes & Noble shelf or the cyber shelf, the self-help section is always packed with plenty of options. From anger management to self-esteem, from spirituality to creativity, there is a self-help book for every individual need. But does every self-help book actually help? Make a difference? Change a life? Well, that’s up to you and how you prepare the book.
I’ve been honored to have worked on countless self-help books (and I’m an avid reader of them too). Here’s what I wish every author would read before starting their self-help book:
1. Outline Your Book Already, People
Don’t skip this step! In the writing world, there are plotters and pantsers. A plotter is someone who organizes every little detail about their book and creates a pristine outline. Then there’s the pantser, who flies by the seat of their pants and skips the outline altogether. They just dig right in. I believe writers should be both. I want authors to both outline their book and have a good dose of pantser in them so they can still maintain flexibility and creativity. If you’re too rigid about your outline, there isn’t room to have fun.
Before you start your outline for your self-help book, brainstorm the following:
- What do your readers need to know that could change their lives?
- What are they struggling with?
- What problems are they facing?
- How can you help them achieve their goal or solve their problem?
- What’s been said before that you could say differently—from a unique perspective?
If you can answer those questions, then your outline will come together more naturally. Here is an example of an outline you could use as a jumping-off point:
Chapter Outline:
- Chapter Title Quote: Use a quote that sets the tone for the chapter.
- Story/Message: What’s your message? What do you want your readers to learn from this chapter? Tell a story they can relate to.
- Why Do They Need to Know This? Why should they care? (Remember their problem/dilemma/need.)
- What Should They Do Next? (Don’t forget your subtitles!)
- Action Tip: Give them specific tasks they can implement to reinforce what they’ve learned. I like to see 3–5 if possible.
- Reflection and Discussion or Key Takeaways: Summarize the main points in this chapter.
For the Soul Balance Devotional by Kenasia Johnson (in progress), we used this outline for one of the days:
Day 5: Respect the Grieving Process
Quote: “Grief never ends, but it changes. It’s a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith. It is the price of love.” —Author Unknown
Example of Someone You Lost and How It Affected You (Story/Message)
Words the Reader Can Repeat (Positive Affirmation): “Give your soul time to grieve. Grief is not a sign of weakness . . .”
Action Tip: “Confront your grief. Give your soul permission and time to grieve over the things you’ve lost . . .”
Reflection Page (Writing Space)
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
1. What is the importance of outlining a self-help book?
Outlining provides structure and clarity. It helps you organize your thoughts, identify key messages, and ensure your book flows logically.
2. How can I make my self-help book engaging?
Use relatable stories, practical examples, and actionable tips. Connect with your readers on a personal level and offer solutions to their problems.
3. How do I choose a compelling title for my self-help book?
Your title should be clear, concise, and evoke curiosity. Consider using keywords related to your book’s topic and emphasize the benefit readers will gain.
Remember, writing a self-help book is about helping others. Keep your readers’
